Check out these video essays Netsenet recommends about desirability, black women & beauty standards:
Let’s Talk About Black Women and Body Image
Instagram is BAD for Black Women
Society vs. The “Average” Looking Black Woman
THE PROBLEM WITH SOCIAL MEDIA FILTERS (mental health, colorism, unhealthy beauty standards)
The Hold Laid Edges has on the Black Community: Texturism, Locs, & Desirability